sophie, the polish cleaning lady who reminds me every. single. day. that i should go to cavo so i can find myself a nice boyfriend, brought in some books yesterday to donate to the library.

two books, in particular, were for me. she said she thought they might help me. and that i should pass them along to my friends when i finished reading them.

so guys. i am now the proud owner of the black woman's guide to healthy living and all you need is love & other lies about marriage: how to save your marriage before it's too late.